Tuesday, August 29, 2023

Do people accept people with herpes?

Do people accept people with herpes? Yes, many people do accept individuals who have herpes. It's important to remember that having herpes is a common medical condition, and it doesn't define a person's worth or value. Just like with any medical condition, people's reactions can vary, but here are some things to keep in mind:

  1. Education: People who are well-informed about herpes are often more understanding and accepting. Educating your potential partners or friends about what herpes is, how it's transmitted, and the precautions you take can help dispel misconceptions.

  2. Open Communication: Being open and honest about your condition is crucial. Having a candid conversation with a potential partner about your herpes status can lead to a better understanding and decision-making process.

  3. Supportive Relationships: Genuine friends and caring partners will accept you for who you are, including any health conditions you may have. True acceptance often comes from people who are willing to learn, understand, and support you.

  4. Reducing Stigma: While there is still some stigma associated with herpes, efforts are being made to reduce this stigma through education and awareness campaigns. As more people become informed, acceptance tends to improve.

  5. Online Communities: There are numerous online communities and support groups where people with herpes share their experiences, concerns, and tips for managing the condition. Connecting with others who understand what you're going through can provide a sense of acceptance and belonging.

  6. Empathy and Understanding: Many people have personal experiences with various health challenges, and this can foster empathy and understanding. Others might see your herpes diagnosis as just one aspect of you, rather than something that defines you entirely.

Many people are living with herpes, or have experienced an STI at some point. Does that mean that you won't ever be rejected? No, of course not. But don't let an infection make you think you can't lead a normal life and have a great relationship. There are millions of people out there with herpes living happy and fulfilled lives.













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Remember that while acceptance is important, not everyone will respond positively. Some individuals might have misconceptions or fears about herpes due to lack of accurate information. However, focusing on building relationships with people who are open-minded, caring, and educated about herpes can lead to more positive and accepting interactions.

How do I accept that I have herpes?

 Accepting a diagnosis of herpes can be challenging, as it may come with a range of emotions, concerns, and questions. Here are some steps to help you come to terms with the diagnosis:

  1. Give Yourself Time: It's natural to feel a mix of emotions, including shock, anger, sadness, or even denial. Allow yourself the time and space to process these emotions without judgment.

  2. Educate Yourself: Learn as much as you can about herpes. Understanding the condition, how it's transmitted, and what it means for your health can help dispel any myths or misconceptions you might have.

  3. Seek Medical Guidance: Consult a healthcare professional to discuss your diagnosis, treatment options, and management strategies. They can provide accurate information and answer your questions.

  4. Connect with Supportive People: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide emotional support. There are also online support groups and forums where you can connect with others who have similar experiences.

  5. Focus on Self-Care: Taking care of your physical and emotional well-being is important. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, such as exercise, hobbies, mindfulness, and spending time with loved ones.

  6. Challenge Stigma: Remember that having herpes doesn't define your worth or value as a person. Stigma around herpes is often based on misconceptions, so try to challenge these negative beliefs and attitudes.

  7. Communicate with Partners: If you're sexually active, open and honest communication with your partners is crucial. Educate them about herpes, discuss ways to prevent transmission, and make decisions together about sexual activity.

  8. Manage Outbreaks: If you experience outbreaks, work with your healthcare provider to manage them effectively. They can recommend antiviral medications or other treatments to alleviate symptoms.

  9. Maintain Healthy Habits: Adopt a healthy lifestyle with balanced nutrition, regular exercise, and sufficient sleep. This can help support your immune system and overall well-being.

  10. Focus on the Positive: While a herpes diagnosis may feel overwhelming, remember that many people with herpes live full and fulfilling lives. It's possible to manage the condition and maintain meaningful relationships.

  11. Consider Professional Help: If you're struggling significantly with acceptance, emotions, or mental health, consider seeking support from a mental health professional. Therapy can provide coping strategies and tools for managing your feelings.









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Acceptance takes time, and everyone's journey is unique. It's okay to have ups and downs along the way. The goal is to reach a point where herpes becomes just one aspect of your life, rather than something that defines you entirely.

Friday, January 5, 2018

Food to Boost Your Immune System To Prevent A Herpes Outbreak

No matter what treatment approach you take, your immune system will be one of the most important weapons that you can work with to combat and control herpes simplex symptoms.

There is no cure for herpes virus but your immune system has the potential to completely suppress the symptoms.


Food to help your Immune System Be in Control of Herpes

Eating a balanced diet that contains a large amount of raw, fresh fruit and vegetables and a minimum amount of processed and refined foods (such as refined sugars, white flour and white bread, deep fried and junk foods) can be a positive start to giving your body what it needs to function best. 

Broccoli, cabbage, brussel sprouts and cauliflower have beneficial properties that are particularly good for warding of herpes breakouts.

Here is the list of food that might be helpful for you.

1.) Prunella vulgaris, known as common self-heal.
2.) Spirulina - The most complete food source, known to man.
3.) Green tea (Camellia sinensis) - Particularly....Gyrokuro.(High
est in Theanine).
4.) Yogourt/Fish/Brocollit Sprouts. (To balance the Lysine to Arginine ratio).
5.) Kale - (I was surprised to learn that Kale is healthier that Collards)
6.) Blueberries/Goji Berries/Pomegranate Juice.
7.) Yams (Sweet Potatoes) - For Vitamin A.
8.) No diet drinks.(not even Splenda). This is because Art. sweeteners are a trigger.
9.) Coconut Water, for the Potassium, (only 60mg/Sodium to the whopping 670mg/Potassium!).
10.) Cook with Reishi and Shitaki Mushrooms.
11.) Ginger/Ginger Root/Ginger Tea

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

Herpes VS Shingles

picture of shingles
Herpes and shingles are clinically distinct diseases, with different symptoms and modes of transmission. However, they are both caused by members of the herpes virus family.

Several members of this virus family can cause disease, but this protocol will focus on herpes simplex virus-1 (HSV-1), herpes simplex virus-2 (HSV-2), and varicella-zoster virus.

HSV-1 and HSV-2 cause herpes, whereas the varicella-zoster virus typically causes chickenpox in children and shingles later in life (Siakallis 2009; Odom 2012; Wolz 2012; Roizman 2001; Odom 2012).

Both herpes and shingles are very common: as many as 90% of the people in the United States have been exposed to HSV-1 (Prasad 2010), and the CDC estimates that 32% of Americans will develop shingles at some point in their lifetime (Sampathkumar 2009; Albrecht 2012a).

One of the most clinically-relevant properties of herpes virus (Herpesviridae) is their ability to establish a latent infection (Roizman 2001). This means that the virus can lay dormant in the body, becoming “reactivated” under certain conditions, and manifest symptoms long after the initial infection. This reactivation can occur as a result of local injury, or systemic factors such as emotional stress, fever, trauma, sunlight exposure, or menstrual periods. But perhaps the most prominent factor, especially in regard to shingles outbreaks among older adults, is general age-related decline in immune function, known as immunosenescence (Oxman 2009; Pfister 2008; Steiner 1995; Roizman 2001; Albrecht 2012a).

Although conventional treatments may improve symptoms and shorten the duration of herpes and shingles outbreaks, many physicians overlook the potential therapeutic role of a common over-the-counter heartburn drug called cimetidine in mitigating the impact of Herpesviridae infections (Miller 1989). Despite several published studies showing cimetidine significantly eases shingles symptoms and shortens outbreak duration, the conventional medical establishment fails to recommend this inexpensive treatment to older adults suffering from this debilitating condition. Sadly, this is probably because cimetidine has been off patent for many years and is therefore no longer financially lucrative for pharmaceutical companies, even though it has substantial potential to provide relief to patients suffering from shingles.

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

Usher Raymond settles Herpes Lawsuit

The singer Usher was reportedly forced to cough up $1.1 million to settle a lawsuit brought by a romantic partner who accused the R&B star of infecting her with the incurable herpes virus. The lawsuit reportedly accused Usher of knowingly spreading an incurable herpes virus infection.

The website claimed that it was able to obtain legal papers documenting “explosive revelations” contained in a “bombshell lawsuit” brought by a celebrity stylist against the 38-year-old R&B singer, Usher.

The legal complaint filed in the Superior Court in Los Angeles reportedly reveals how Usher Raymond IV engaged in “rigorous” unprotected sex with the plaintiff without disclosing that he was infected with the incurable herpes virus.

The legal documents reportedly reveal that Usher was “exposed to herpes” in 2009 or 2010. The singer finalized his divorce from his first wife, Tameka Foster, in 2009. It is uncertain whether his wife was also exposed to the alleged virus infection.

Usher is currently married to Grace Miguel, who was the executive chef on the set of The Cosby Show, according to E! News.

The legal documents give a graphic description of the signs and symptoms of herpes virus infection that Usher reportedly showed.

The singer was said to have produced “greenish discharge” from his penis. However, that was the only sign of infection that he showed, and doctors reportedly said he was an “asymptomatic carrier.”

Radar Online reported that Usher had initially admitted to the victim that he might have been exposed to infection with the virus, but he later claimed that test results returned negative. Usher was reportedly able to persuade the victim that he was actually never infected with the virus.

Usher then reportedly engaged in “rigorous” unprotected sex with the unidentified partner.

“Believing Raymond’s statements that it had been nothing and cleared up, [she] continued her relationship,” the attorneys for the plaintiff reportedly wrote in the legal complaint demanding damages.

The pair continued to have unprotected “romps” for three weeks until the victim began to feel “very sick,” according to the legal documents. The victim had a “fever of 100 degrees, chills, headache, and aches and pains.” She also developed “lesions and blisters in her vagina,” the legal documents reportedly said


Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Home Care Measures for Genital Herpes

Home Care Measures for Genital Herpes

First, simple self-care may be enough to relieve most discomfort caused by genital herpes. Taking an over-the-counter pain reliever, such as aspirin, acetaminophen, or ibuprofen, can help ease the pain of herpes symptoms. Doctors sometimes recommend soaking the affected area in warm water. But the area should be kept dry most of the time. If toweling off after bathing is uncomfortable, try using a hair dryer. Then put on cotton underwear. Cotton absorbs moisture better than synthetic fabric does.

Herbs, Supplements, and More for Genital Herpes

Scientists have studied herbal extracts and nutritional supplements based on some herpes patients' claims that they help relieve symptoms. Some study results have been promising, others discouraging.


Many people say that an extract of the echinacea plant helps boost the immune system's ability to fight infection. Some say it decreases the frequency and severity of genital herpes outbreaks. Researchers in the U.K. compared the effect of echinacea with that of a placebo. They gave echinacea to 50 people with genital herpes for six months and a placebo for another six months. There was no significant difference in the number of herpes outbreaks during the two periods.

Another study showed that an ointment containing propolis, a waxy substance that honeybees make, may help herpes sores heal. Sores healed faster for people using the propolis ointment than in those using ointments containing the antiviral drug acyclovir or a placebo. The ointment was applied to herpes sores four times a day. After 10 days, 24 of the 30 people using propolis ointment said their sores healed, compared with 14 of the 30 people using acyclovir ointment and 12 of the 30 using a placebo.

Researchers have also found that the herb Prunella vulgaris, and an edible mushroom, Rozites caperata (the "gypsy mushroom"), contain chemicals that fight both HSV-1 and HSV-2.

These treatments have not been approved for treating genital herpes by the FDA. You can buy them in stores, but they are considered nutritional supplements, not drugs, so they are not subjected to the same quality standards that FDA-approved drugs are.

Monday, July 17, 2017

Herpes IgG Test Results Interpretation




Herpes IgG test result
Herpes IgG Test
Herpes IgG tests are one type of blood test for the herpes simplex virus (HSV). Herpes blood tests look for the body's immune reaction to a herpes infection. They don't search directly for the virus. Because the immune reaction takes time to develop after the time of infection, it's not immediately detectable. In fact, depending on the type of test used, it can take up to four months to become positive on an HSV IgG test. Tip: If you have herpes symptoms, go to the doctor right away. Sores can be tested directly. You don't have to wait for the immune system to respond. This type of testing can be more accurate if the sore is tested quickly enough.

Herpes IgG Test Results Interpretation


Much of our recent updated information on IgG index values came from direct conversations with our top researchers, Dr. Larry Corey and Dr. Anna Wald at the University of Washington, and Terri Warren at Westover Heights Clinic. Therefore there are no internet articles to link to.

When the virus enters our system, antibody begins to form. This is what the IgG test looks for. The usual key looks like this: less than 0.9 = negative 0.9-1.09 = unequivocal more than 1.09 = positive Low Positives (1.09-3.5): However, studies have shown that the IgG isn't completely reliable between 1.09-3.5. A number in that range is considered a "low positive," and according to our best clinician, Terri Warren, about half of these turn out to be false positives. Definitive Positives (3.5+): Once the index number hits 3.5, however, it's highly likely to be definitive. This will likely not occur until a few weeks following transmission - often 3-4 months or so. According to Dr. Larry Corey at the University of Washington, at some point after this, the antibody load in our systems "plateau." After this, any fluctuations in the index value of a subsequent IgG test really doesn't have anything to do with the antibody load in our systems. These fluctuations usually have more to due with lab conditions and methodology.

Can the IgG tell me when I contracted the virus?



Because our immune functions differ so much from one another, there is really no way to correlate an IgG index value with any kind of a timeline for diagnosis, except in one instance: a negative IgG in tandem with a positive PCR DNA swab test. This would indicate a fairly recent infection - probably less than 4 months old. The IgG is negative at this point because it is too early after transmission for our antibodies to have generated enough to trigger a positive result. However the positive PCR DNA swab is irrefutable proof that the virus is present.